give a girl the right shoes & she can conquer the world.

confidence. some people exude it, & others never truly see & appreciate their beauty, potential&”fabulousity”. i honestly believe that every girl has the power to change someones life. & if you’ve changed someones life, you’ve changed the world, something more than anyone could ever ask for. marilyn monroe once said “give a girl the right shoes & she can conquer the world”, this has since become my mantra. everyday we’re told “no”, “you can’t”, “don’t bother”, “you’re not good enough” but when was the last time that someone said “go for it”, “i believe in you”. my whole life i’ve heard more “no’s” than “yes’s” & i’ve decided to ignore them all. to ignore all the people that told me i couldn’t do something, that it would fail, that i would fail. because there’s nothing that i love more than proving someone wrong & i’m determined to prove every single person that’s ever told me “no” wrong. you should do the same. there are so many talented&amazing people around me & everyday i see them doubt themselves, lose their confidence & give up & i wonder why? i’ll admit, i wasn’t always confident, i’m still not, there are days when i think, “why would i be able to make a difference”? it’s those days that i have to remind myself “give a girl the right shoes & she can conquer the world” every single girl has the ability to do what she pleases, to make the change she wants, to be whomever she wishes to be. she just has to find those shoes that will enable her to do so. every person has a benefactor that they either take for granted, don’t realize they have, or use to their benefit. it’s up to you to find what your shoes are & don’t let them go to waste, use them, flaunt them & strut so that you will conquer the world. the world would be a much better place if people took the time to focus on everything they can do. everything they should do. everything they want to do. everything they hope to do. i honestly believe that every single girl will change the world if she takes the time to find her shoes, after all you would never leave a pair of loubitouns sitting in your wardrobe. so find your right shoes&conquer the world.. everyone has the ability to overcome the “no’s”, “you can’t”‘s, & be sure to never put anyone else down because they have just as much beauty, potential&”fabulosity” as you do.

stay fabulous,



you’re never fully dressed without a smile.

it’s hardly a new saying, i’ve heard it since i was a little girl & i’ve always believed in it. obviously, that new marc jacobs bag or those ever classic tory burch flats might pull together the perfect outfit, but without your presence, it all goes to waste. even the classiest & best dressed woman can ruin a million dollar outfit with a frown. audrey hepburn once said “i believe that happiest girls are the prettiest girls” & this is one hundred percent true. while i am in a constant love affair with clothes, i’m not naive enough to believe that clothes make the outfit. style goes far beyond being able to spot trends, pull off the latest fashion risk & being able to look pulled together. style comes from how you carry yourself. every classy woman knows how to carry herself with grace, dignity& a flawless smile. coco chanel herself once said “a woman should be two things:classy&fabulous” which in itself is the essence of style. i honestly believe that style has almost nothing to do with clothing, but rather your confidence, presence&attitude. a woman dressed to the nines could have positively no style, simply because she has no idea how to carry herself. the simplicity of a smile is something that so many people these days seem to forget. they’re losing the meaning of life, they’re losing their style. by getting lost in the mindless details of life & forgetting to stop&look around. people seem to forget all the positive things that happen to them & narrow in on every little thing that goes wrong. the world has developed a “glass half empty” motto and left the optimists in the minority. so the next time you do your mirror check before you leave your apartment or car, make sure you smile, because happiest girls are the prettiest & you’re never fully dressed without a smile. i can guarantee that you will look 10x better, feel 10x better & make 10x as many people’s days if you flash your pearly whites.

stay fabulous & remember “her life improved dramatically when she decided to break the rules & find beauty where she’d been told there was none.”